A while ago I met this girl online named Annalis. I thought at first that she was a great person, but just as I had these feelings, her true self took shape. The first couple nights she would stay overnight, but than after that she came up with excuses and told me how she had a hard time sleeping at other peoples houses. I noticed she would often race to the cell phone and step away to talk on it, always saying it was her sister checking up on her. Things seemed fishy and when I get that feeling, being fucked over is always around the corner. But I had know idea what fucked over was until this girl came around.

I began to go over to her apartment to hang out. She had told me she lived with her sister, brother in law Jason, and her sisters two kids. I would always cross paths with her brother in-law, and always saw her kids. Her sister however I had never seen. She would always say how her sister was so cynical about people, and how she would be so degrading to me if she didn't approve of me dating her. So I just let it go at that and never saw her. It always made me very curious as to why she showed such lack of affection towards me when we were at her apartment. Her explanation was how that is just the kind of family she was raised in. Things like affection no matter how mild just are not shown except behind closed doors. Well that kind of sucked because I am the kind of guy that starves for the little things, in public or not, but oh well I let it be how she wanted it around certain people.

I noticed one night looking at her while she laid in my bed, a faint scarring across her stomach, almost the mark that would be left after someone has had kids, but she told me she never has had any. She informed me that it was from a period of weight gain and loss. Again I left it at what she told me it was. She was also a cutter. I now began to play stupid, because even though I will never say I will trust a girl 100 percent in my lifetime, I still wanted to see if by chance I was being paranoid. Honestly I should have known better since my gut feelings or spidey sense has been correct about 100 percent of the time when it came to worthless lying whores.

So here I am to try to trust an untrustable person. After going out with her for a couple weeks she would brag at how great it was going to be to go see her family in Wisconsin, and she told me the days she was going to leave and get back. Then a few days before she left I asked her how long she was going for, and she had changed the dates when she told me the second time. Now I had ample reasons to start thinking how fucked up things seemed. Especially the time she sent me various sexy photos and upon looking at the info or details on the photo, it was marked with the date of the same night she gave them too me. I questioned her about it and she said I was freaking out and crazy. When in reality even without proof I knew better. Someone had taken them for her that same night.

So off she goes on her trip to Wisconsin, and she assures me she will call me there. Well, it never happened. I waited about a week and called her and she answered. I asked her if she thought it was unusual to not talk to a person you are suppose to really like for a week, not even to say a simple hello. Especially at the beginning of a relationship. She said she didn't think it was a big deal which puzzled me. I remember trying to break myself off with her before she had left, and she freaked out saying how bad she wanted me around. So with that said I stuck it out.

Anyway, she had told me she was coming home, when in reality she was at her apartment for 3 days prior. How do I know? Let me tell you. I decided to play detective, and made up a profile of someone false. I wrote her saying how I had an interest in her profile and asked how she's doing and blah blah. She replied saying she was great and how she got home a few days ago from seeing her family in Wisconsin. However when I spoke to her in my own person on the telephone she was saying how she was sitting at her uncles computer in Wisconsin, making up elaborate lies of the family that was around her. So upon getting this information that she was "home" I wanted to make sure she was not referring to her uncles home in Wisconsin but her actual apartment here in Michigan. So I take my truck to my parents, borrow the parental units car, throw on some dim shades and a baseball cap and my journey to her apartment commenced. As I arrived I drove past slowly noticing all the lights were on including the small patio light. Sure enough she was home. What did I have to do to bust her?

I called her and told how I have some friends around that look out for one another, and how her car was seen with her in it, even though it was sealed off in the garage, so technically I could not say she was home, because I didn't actually see her or the car. But I told her my friends had seen her in her car, and that all her lights were on in her home. Sure enough she breaks down and cries, which is followed by freaking out. She said she wanted time alone and I told her all she had to do was tell me. I told her its not right to lie and make up such elaborate stories of where she is at. She followed up by saying that its a normal part of a relationship, and that is to lie. Lying is a part of a relationship. Sad to say most of the pieces of shit walking the earth make it that way, however it doesn't make it right, and it's a piss poor excuse to do it yourself.

This person I had made up also attained information that Annalis had plans to break up with me a "few days back", so I confronted her about this, saying "if you planned this then why the fuck didn't you let me go when I wanted out". She would tell me because she is very flipid with her feelings and she goes back and fourth. Which is bullshit, she just wanted to get to know someone else and take her bisexuality on a test drive, while keeping me for one of her other personalities.

So after all this madness I ended up going to her apartment after not seeing her for like 2 weeks. She claimed to be a good little Christian, her daddy is even a pastor. She wanted me to read a book about letting go of the past, written by some bible thumping faggot preacher. She thought that I had a problem allowing my past relationships to cause distrust for new ones. How ironic. Forgive me for smashing this religion but holy Jesus fucking Christ is this religion used in the worst of ways these days. She told me she was wrong to lie, but more importantly I need to learn forgiveness, and she said I also had an ego problem, simply for telling her the basic principles of right and wrong. All said and done, it was time for things to end.

Now we fast forward perhaps a week after it's over. I always thought deep down, what if those two kids she lived with are hers. What if Jason her brother in-law was actually her husband? I then thought that there is no fucking way she could have manufactured such a life of madness with me in it. But, she did.

She told me her name was Annalis Wallschlaeger. However a few months later after we stopped seeing each other I found her name was actually Annalis Ciluffo. Now before you go and type that second name into the Google search engine which of course brings up the best results, allow me to enlighten you all. In case you happen to cross the path of a manipulative pathological liar that suffers from schizophrenia, allow me to tell you this for your own safety. For one, in all honesty I do feel bad for her. I do understand that with some types of mental illness it may be impossible for one to function properly upstairs. I do also know that I was burned bad, and made to look a fool. I also write this in hopes to protect people in case they themselves cross the path of a dangerous person. One in which does not understand the difference between the truth and a lie, or good and evil. A person that should not be allowed to have children, as I do fear for them.

I remember after it was over with her, that I told my friends this. I would not be surprised if this girl was the kind of girl that would slam an ice pick through your chest while your sleeping. Guess what. I wasn't far off.

I took her real name and looked her up. What I found was something disturbing. I may have gotten fucked over yet I will get my turn in. I have just placed the icing on the cake. I am also glad that I currently pack a 410, and a .38 not because I like to go shooting, but for that extra comfort when it comes to crossing paths with someone you never would fathom meeting in your lifetime.

The brother in law was actually her husband, and the two kids are also hers. I crossed paths with this guy, and I think he thought all along I was only Anna's friend. Which is also why she never showed affection around me. She would never show any around him either.

This person is the most compulsive liar I have ever known, She does not know how to tell the truth. It's scary. She would lie about trivial things that are abnormal to lie about. Things that don't even make sense. I should have taken her serious when she said her parents have her seeing a shrink.

Now what you will read next is quite disturbing. I write this so others don't fall victim to the same lies and deception as I have, or perhaps just a victim to a dangerous person, due to her mental illness. This was in the Grand Rapids, Michigan Press and was also covered by news 13 back in 2004.

You may not find this full story through a search engine, I actually purchased this Grand Rapids Michigan Press article from their website, in order to get the full story and article instead of just bits and pieces.

Copyright Grand Rapids Press Aug 21, 2004
PLAINFIELD TWP. -- The caller's name did not sound familiar. She told Rebecca Nesbitt they were former classmates at Wayland Union High School -- she had left the area, moved back and wanted to make friends.

It sounded strange, but Anna seemed so nice. Still, Nesbitt, 21, could not place her. After several telephone calls, they decided to see a movie at Studio 28 -- a public place where Nesbitt felt safe.

Just before she was to leave, Anna called. She needed a ride because she was without her car. Nesbitt went to the woman's Plainfield Township apartment, where they chatted in the living room before Anna got up.

Moments later, a claw hammer slammed into the back of Nesbitt's head. She was hit four or five times, and knocked to the ground. She cut her hand smashing a window to call for help. She finally forced her way out.

Only at the hospital did Nesbitt find out Anna's identity: Annalis Ciluffo, a 22-year-old mother of two who had married Nesbitt's high-school boyfriend, Jason.

"I'm thinking, 'What?' " Nesbitt said Friday.

Kent County sheriff's detectives say Ciluffo targeted Nesbitt because of a relationship Nesbitt had with Jason Ciluffo during their senior year in 2001.

Investigators told Nesbitt that the suspect was "emotionally distraught over our past relationship," she said.

On Friday, Rockford District Judge Steven Servaas postponed Annalis Ciluffo's preliminary examination and ordered her to undergo a competency evaluation at the request of her attorney, David Kaczor.

She is charged with assault with intent to murder, a potential life offense, in the Aug. 5 incident.

Kaczor said Ciluffo's troubles played a part in the alleged attack. Court records showed she suffered from schizophrenia. She told her attorney she was not taking her medication when the incident occurred, and has multiple personalities.

She does not remember the attack, Kaczor said after the brief hearing.

Nesbitt, who suffered a concussion and needed 14 stitches to close the gash on her hand, cannot make sense of it.

She lives in Caledonia, and was not aware that her old boyfriend was married and living in the area. They dated only six months, and she had long since moved on.

Nesbitt attends Baker College in Muskegon, volunteers at Bethany Christian Services and has had a book published, "Voice with no Choice," about two boys kidnapped by their mother before they were reunited with their father.

She could not have imagined a plot like this, she said.

She said the defendant, using her maiden name, stopped by Nesbitt's mother's house in July, saying she was a friend who just moved back to town. Her mother, Kathy, felt bad she put the two in touch, but her daughter said she had no way of knowing what would happen.

When she first spoke to the young woman, and didn't recognize her, Nesbitt thought: "OK, maybe if she didn't go to Wayland long, and I just don't remember ... In Wayland, we had 200 kids."

Ciluffo moved to Kent County about a year and a half ago; she had previously lived in Wisconsin and Spring Arbor, near Jackson, according to court records.

Nesbitt said Anna was "really, really sweet." Still, she kept her guard up, and suggested public places to meet. But when Anna needed a ride, Nesbitt said she would pick her up.

Once the attack started, Nesbitt just wanted to save her life.

"The first blow kind of took me by surprise, but the second one scared ... me. It looked like she was going to kill me. I felt like I was in a movie, one of those drama movies. (I wondered) 'Why is she doing this?' "

Nesbitt smashed the window and screamed. She tried to get out, but the door was locked and Ciluffo blocked the door. Eventually, Nesbitt forced her way through, with the defendant's arms wrapped around her waist, and unlocked the door to get out, police said in court records.

Two witnesses saw Ciluffo with the hammer, records showed.

During the attack, Ciluffo allegedly told Nesbitt: "Don't struggle, it'll be so much easier that way." Later, Nesbitt said, Ciluffo begged her to come back because "she said I needed to understand something."

Now, Nesbitt said: "I'm just glad I made it through OK. I've got a really strong support system. A lot of family."

Ciluffo is free on $50,000 bond, and cannot have contact with the victim.