~HOW I AM IN CHAT~

Heres a tip and some information about talking to me. You know if I am trying to be nice to someone, and they blow me off please don't expect me to be happy about it later on when they approach me. Although not a good way to live, that being stubborn and unforgiving, when you have been online for over 10 years and have had thousands of idiot like rude approaches, wiping someone off your slate leaves room for the ones that will give a good legitimate conversation or a good time.

When someone approaches me in a rude way or perhaps sarcastic and not legitimate at their approach, don't call me stuck up for not kissing their asses afterwards and saying I have no sense of humor. I am very stubborn if someone is going to be an idiot. I notice so many seem to come up to me and dish out weird things in their approach, like they make it a game at the introduction. A simple hello will do, considering most odd approaches turn out to be for the sole purpose of being rude just to get a laugh.

Others may come in a chat room, and because I speak my mind they call me an asshole, after they have just entered and know absolutely nothing of the current situation or debate. Know someone before you make an absolute final judgment. It's OK to think and perhaps have an idea about someone, but don't make it the final answer before you have ever even spoke more than a few words with them. Know someone before you throw out too much sarcasm.

I am sorry the children and stuck up superficial people may seem to ruin my sense of humor, but I need to know first that the approach is real. I love sarcasm with my friends, but its not good right away over a computer screen, it's hard to hear the intent in someones voice over a computer. I have spent too much time on being nice to someone in which they only had the intent of taking their sarcastic introduction 15 minutes down the road to just finish with name calling to show off to the rest of the room and try to get laughs from their friends. I am nice, but I am cautious.

I hope some people out there can understand where I come from, if you can't, perhaps it's best not to know me. I am not perfect, and you may not like how I go about things, and in this case you would know what not to bother with. Otherwise I am open to talk to anyone.

Please understand, that I am busy a lot of the time that I am online. I do like to try to help people online, if they have various questions on health, herbs, or whatever it may be. I also try my best to talk to people, as far as getting to know someone new. Some people get snippy with me when I don't seem to give them the amount of attention they think I should be giving them, or they think I am being rude and ignoring them. I get many messages, and honestly if I sat to talk to everyone that wanted my time for chat. I would never be able to leave my house. I do like to have my free time where I can just surf, and not have to answer to every message I get. I don't ignore people for the sole purpose of being unhelpful, uncaring, or mean. Very few, but there are some who have been quite mean to me, when I have not answered back to them in the way they think I should.  All for furture reference if you decide to chat. I am not trying to be a jerk, if I happen to not answer right away, it just means I am busy with other things.

~Instant messaging me on Yahoo or AOL~

Due to the fact that I get a lot of instant messages. I am very selective on what ones I choose to give my time to. Some messages I get are not legit. Whether it is coming from someone wanting to get a rise out of me, someone trying to be a person they are not, or someone I have known in the past that is trying to sneak back into my life under a different name. It is now beyond the year 2000, and I find it hard to talk to people that have blank profiles and no pictures. This is the first hint of someone being unreal in their approach. If you would like to take it in a rude way than go ahead. I do not care to give my time to an invisible person in most cases. If I speak to someone for a while, yet still have the sense I am being fucked with, I may want to hear them on a telephone. Now in this case, if you have seen this large website and think that I put my life out here just to become a serial killer than your using excuses to keep your game on. With this said I think it is fair to rule out many people that are thinking about approaching me. If you still wish to, than below are a few things that will gain you no response from me at all depending on my mood.
 
1. Asking me A/S/L (This sounds like a preprogrammed human looking for a potential mate for copulation so we can continue to spread like the mighty virus we are. And, If you are one that has seen my website, what the hell are your doing asking me this.)
 
2. If your Yahoo or AOL profile is empty, and you have no photograph you may not get a response. The ability to type, and having cameras has been around for quite some time now.
 
3. If I have known you for days, weeks, or months, and you are "scared" to give out your phone number or call in times when I question that you may be someone else. Your either a gay guy hitting on me with a picture of his sisters 36dd's in his profile. You could be someone in general that you are not. And you might be a girl I once knew that is using desperate attempts at getting me to talk to them again, not really because you like me anymore, but maybe because your ego can't handle the fact of someone really blocking you out this time around.
 
4. If you go out of your way geographically to come to the place where I work when you really don't give a shit about health food, just to stalk me, and than pretend I am crazy for even thinking in such a manner, you may not get a response from me when you get a hold of me on various new screen names as I have blocked about 20 of your old ones.
 
5. Making other obvious and various stupid approaches or comments will get you ignored.
 
Perhaps over time this will be added to. I only get this out there, because this might make it a few times less a year, that dumb people will not approach me. This doesn't mean that your not a legit person, but if I have nothing to work with, I will assume so for the safety of my own time not being wasted.

 


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